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Reports that Britney Spears had an alleged ‘manic meltdown’ while eating out at an LA restaurant on Friday – after fans apparently approached the star – suggest that she could still be struggling to come to terms with life after her conservatorship ended, claims a top psychologist and trauma-informed coach.

Britney’s husband, Sam Asghari, 28, denied the singer was ‘talking gibberish’ while the pair dined out at the JOEY restaurant in Woodland Hills, California, as reported by TMZ, saying: ‘Don’t believe what you read online people.’

And Britney herself dismissed the incident, saying in a long, rambling post, which has had 75,000 likes, that she was ‘bored’ of the speculation around her and that she’d merely been ‘a little drunk at a restaurant’. 

FEMAIL spoke to psychologist Dr Tony Ortega and trauma-informed therapist Caroline Strawson, who said the star is likely to still be floundering following the shackles of the 13-year conservatorship being lifted over a year ago in November 2021. 

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Britney's alleged erratic behaviour in the LA restaurant JOEY (pictured) prompted her husband Sam Asghari, 28, to deny the star was struggling with mental health issues, saying she was merely 'frustrated' at being interrupted during her meal by fans

Britney’s alleged erratic behaviour in the LA restaurant JOEY (pictured) prompted her husband Sam Asghari, 28, to deny the star was struggling with mental health issues, saying she was merely ‘frustrated’ at being interrupted during her meal by fans

The star’s husband explained Spears’ behaviour, saying it had been borne out of frustration at fans photographing her while she was enjoying a quiet meal.

Asghari quashed rumours that he’d stormed out of the restaurant after the incident, saying: ‘People get a little too excited to see my wife so everybody is filming, doing their thing. 

‘But you know how it is, fame comes with the territory and I went to get the car to get the hell out of there, and people just thought I’d left, but that didn’t happen. So it is what it is man.’ 

Since the conservatorship lifted, Britney has become known for her quirky social media antics, often featuring her dancing to the camera in different outfits. 

Britney followed up the latest concerning episode by posting a video of herself posing for the camera – and flipping her middle finger – in a video set to Divinyls’ 90s hit I Touch Myself.

Explaining the incident in a longer post to her 41.6million fans three days ago, she wrote: ‘I watched ‘NATURAL BORN KILLERS’ this morning and damn I got ENLIGHTENED … and HOLY SMOKES S**T BALLS.  

The Toxic singer, 41, admitted she was 'a little drunk in a restaurant' in the latest incident which has sparked concern over the star's mental health (Pictured: Britney posing for her Instagram followers at the weekend)

The Toxic singer, 41, admitted she was ‘a little drunk in a restaurant’ in the latest incident which has sparked concern over the star’s mental health (Pictured: Britney posing for her Instagram followers at the weekend)

Fans had suggested the star was 'talking gibberish' while sat at a restaurant table in Los Angeles on Friday

Britney followed up the latest concerning episode by posting a video of herself posing for the camera - and flipping her middle finger - in a video set to Divinyls' 90s hit I Touch Myself

Fans had suggested the star was ‘talking gibberish’ while sat at a restaurant table in Los Angeles on Friday. Britney followed up the latest concerning episode by posting a video of herself posing for the camera – and flipping her middle finger – in a video set to Divinyls’ 90s hit I Touch Myself

Psychologist Dr Tony Ortega told FEMAIL finding a new path after being forced to live under the control of dad Jamie Spears (pictured with Britney in 2015)  could spark 'reckless behaviour'

Psychologist Dr Tony Ortega told FEMAIL finding a new path after being forced to live under the control of dad Jamie Spears (pictured with Britney in 2015)  could spark ‘reckless behaviour’

Since the conservatorship lifted, Britney has become known for her quirky social media antics, often featuring her dancing to the camera in different outfits

 Since the conservatorship lifted, Britney has become known for her quirky social media antics, often featuring her dancing to the camera in different outfits

Britney herself addressed the incident to her 41.6million followers on Instagram, saying she was 'bored' of the speculation about her health in a long post

Britney herself addressed the incident to her 41.6million followers on Instagram, saying she was ‘bored’ of the speculation about her health in a long post

The star with her husband, Iranian personal trainer Sam Asghari, shortly after the conservatorship was lifted in 2021. Caroline Strawson, a trauma informed therapist and coach, says that a life in the spotlight means that Britney is likely to be triggered by high-stress situations

The star with her husband, Iranian personal trainer Sam Asghari, shortly after the conservatorship was lifted in 2021. Caroline Strawson, a trauma informed therapist and coach, says that a life in the spotlight means that Britney is likely to be triggered by high-stress situations

‘I’m sure I brought a billion SMILES to me LOOKING LIKE SHREK at a restaurant. Even my best friend couldn’t WAIT TO SEND IT TO ME, THEY DON’T THINK TWICE because we are all natural born killers,’ Spears added.

‘I know the news is all hyped about me being a little drunk at a restaurant … it’s like they’ll be WATCHING MY EVERY MOVE !!!’ Spears continued.

‘I’m so flattered they talk about me like a maniac THEN have the balls to talk about all the negative things that happened in my past !!!’ she said.

‘Honestly it would be safer for me to compliment this world and f**k up because if I become a prophet and don’t create history, we might have something y’all… I’m just KIDDING, but it’s a good thought,’ Spears added. 

Happiness: But Britney is having to re-learn how to act in social situations, says psychologist  Dr Tony Ortega

Happiness: But Britney is having to re-learn how to act in social situations, says psychologist  Dr Tony Ortega

Caroline Strawson, a trauma informed therapist and coach, says that a life in the spotlight means that Britney is likely to be triggered by high-stress situations.

She explains: ‘What many of us do not realise is that trauma is stored in the body, waiting like a ticking time bomb to go off the moment something triggers you. 

Many celebrities go on to have these very public trauma responses – their nervous systems are driven to protect them from pain…

 Caroline Strawson, therapist

‘Trauma responses are responses in our body where our nervous system detects danger or potential danger. Britney has no control over this because, in these moments of being triggered, emotion overrides any logic the brain may be trying to tell her.’

She said that fans approaching the star might be enough to spark irrational behaviour, despite the fact Britney wasn’t in danger. 

Strawson explains: ‘So many people try and just “think” their way out of trauma and healing, believing that once an event or person is removed from your life, you will feel better. Sadly, this isn’t the case. 

‘Trauma is a somatic experience and is not about the person/event causing someone to feel the way they do. The conservatorship will have reinforced beliefs that Britney will have been programmed with from a very young age. Life for Britney was conditional. 

‘She learnt from a very early age that her sense of worth was wrapped up in singing, dancing and earning money. This is why many celebrities go on to have these very public trauma responses because it’s their nervous system driven to protect them from pain.’ 

Re-build: Strawson told FEMAIL that the singer, now 41, is likely to be experiencing freedom for the first time in her life after being asked 'to play roles' in a bid for stardom during her childhood (Pictured: Ryan Gosling and Britney Spears as child stars in The Mickey Mouse Club)

Re-build: Strawson told FEMAIL that the singer, now 41, is likely to be experiencing freedom for the first time in her life after being asked ‘to play roles’ in a bid for stardom during her childhood (Pictured: Ryan Gosling and Britney Spears as child stars in The Mickey Mouse Club)

Spears pictured with her parents Lynne and Jamie Spears in Las Vegas at the height of her pop fame; the singer is now estranged from both of her parents after a court declared the conservatorship placed upon her null and void in November 2021

Spears pictured with her parents Lynne and Jamie Spears in Las Vegas at the height of her pop fame; the singer is now estranged from both of her parents after a court declared the conservatorship placed upon her null and void in November 2021

In the months following the end of the legal document, Spears has frquently vented about feeling silenced during the years the conservatorship was in place, saying she ‘felt paralyzed’ by ’15 years of secrets’. 

She wrote early last year on her Instagram platform: ‘I was a f*****g nun in my conservatorship!!! The prayer of silence I’ve endured would possibly offend the Pope.’

Basic life skills can likely atrophy [under such a conservatorship]. Socializing again became a bit of a herculean feat…

Dr Tony Ortega, Psychologist  

The star received an outpouring of support from her die-hard fans who helped start the #FreeBritney movement, which is thought to have helped free the star from her father Jamie Spears, but many have continued to express fears for the former child star since it was lifted.

Love and support, says Dr Tony Ortega, a clinical psychologist with more than thirty years experience, and author of #IsHeHereYet: Being The Person You Want To Be With, might not be enough to outweigh the ‘long term negative ramifications’ of the conservatorship.

‘Basic life skills can likely atrophy [under such a conservatorship]. How many of us lost certain skills while we were locked up during quarantine? Socializing again became a bit of a herculean feat. Imagine living under these conditions, actually much more restrictive conditions, for years and years, being told what to do 24/7. One would lose a lot of skills, primarily social skills.’  

Britney suffered a miscarriage in May last year, after announcing her pregnancy in April, pictured at Christmas with husband Sam

Britney suffered a miscarriage in May last year, after announcing her pregnancy in April, pictured at Christmas with husband Sam

Britney has become known for her confident posts on social media, including posing naked, as she did in April last year...several months after she was unshackled from the legally binded document her father had served

Britney has become known for her confident posts on social media, including posing naked, as she did in April last year…several months after she was unshackled from the legally binded document her father had served 

He adds: ‘Britney Spears is a global phenomenon but not just for her unforgettable music lyrics but also for her battles with mental health and the subsequent conservatorship drama. You wouldn’t want this kind of fame, mental illness and family division for your worst enemy; it would likely have long-term negative ramifications for anyone.’ 

Strawson, author of best-selling book Divorce Became My Superpower, says Britney’s childhood – long before the conservatorship was put in place – is also rearing its head in her life now.     

‘Growing up in the public eye, Britney learnt that love was conditional and that simply being Britney Spears was not enough. She needed to take on roles. She had to perform a role, earn money and keep her family in the lifestyle they wanted, meaning she had to keep on playing that role.

Caroline Strawson, left, author of best-selling book Divorce Became My Superpower, says Britney's difficulties are likely to have begun in the days before the conservatorship, when she was forced to 'take on a role' to provide for her family

Dr Tony Ortega, a clinical psychologist with more than thirty years experience, and author of #IsHeHereYet: Being The Person You Want To Be With, says fan support and a loving relationship might not be enough to outweigh the 'long term negative ramifications' of the conservatorship

Caroline Strawson, left, author of best-selling book Divorce Became My Superpower, says Britney’s difficulties are likely to have begun in the days before the conservatorship, when she was forced to ‘take on a role’ to provide for her family. Right: Dr Tony Ortega, a clinical psychologist with more than thirty years experience, and author of #IsHeHereYet: Being The Person You Want To Be With, says fan support and a loving relationship might not be enough to outweigh the ‘long term negative ramifications’ of the conservatorship

‘Roles of a singer, a dancer, an entertainer, and a moment-maker to get that sense of belonging that she is enough. Over the years, Britney learnt to stay safe by complying, getting herself into a freeze trauma response. 

‘To the outside, it looked like she was singing and performing, however she was stuck in functional freeze as her nervous system was trying to numb out her pain whilst she dissociated, feeling nothing because that would be a painful reminder of not being good.

‘This would have an effect on anyone, as playing a role to receive love constantly is exhausting and likely one of the contributing factors for when she shaved her hair. 

‘Erratic behaviour is a way to cry for help so someone, anyone, would stop and notice a child in distress – a child because these are all emotional wounds that form in our childhood. She may have been an adult, but it was the childhood wounds that caused the trauma responses, which were trying to keep Britney safe.’

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