A professional mistress who exclusively dates married men has revealed the reasons why men are unfaithful and how to avoid being cheated on.
Amy Kupps, 33, from North Carolina, explained that she hears the same complaints from her lovers and believes there are sure-fire ways to avoid any extramarital relations.
The former teacher-turned-OnlyFans content creator, recommends bringing more excitement to the bedroom, whether that involves watching X-rated videos with your partner, or getting a boob job in order to fulfil their desires about how you look.
‘Your partner is guaranteed to stay if you fulfil their sexual fantasies,’ Amy said.
Amy Kupps, 33, (pictured) from North Carolina, who exclusively dates married men, has shared her advice for avoiding infidelity
Amy (pictured) said pleasuring your partner often and bringing excitement to the bedroom can reduce the chance of them being unfaithful
Amy said men love confident women, so show some butt and cleavage in public as he will likely run from a conservative plain Jane
‘Pleasuring your partner frequently and often is key.
‘You need to watch porn together, be open to a boob job, change your hair color and wear something you don’t normally wear.
‘Be sexy in public – a man loves confidence, so show some butt and cleavage. If you’re a conservative plain Jane, he will likely run.
‘You need to role play, get in costumes, have sex in the back of a church or concert.
‘Be risky and exciting and don’t ever be afraid to show public displays of affection.
‘Learn his fantasies and you will keep him forever.
‘Men watch porn for a reason. Being a bit like his own personal porn star will ensure he doesn’t run.’
Amy advises women to try role playing with costumes, while having sex at a concert or at the back of a church
Amy said it’s important to have public displays of affection, take risks and be exciting
Amy said being a man’s personal porn star and learning his fantasies will keep him from running
Amy, who has racked up 85,000 Instagram followers by posting sexy content under the handle @amy.kupps93, also recommends sharing phone passwords, and communicating openly when it comes to finances.
When it comes to the men she services, she claims there are a list of common complaints they share about their partners.
Amy said: ‘I often hear, “My wife doesn’t have sex with me anymore”, “I love my children but they ruined my intimacy”, “My wife’s boring and doesn’t have time for me” and “My wife has no sex appeal, isn’t adventurous and isn’t risky”.
‘Men always confide in me and 100 per cent of the time it is one of those reasons.
Amy said sharing passwords and open communication about finances can also be beneficial for relationships
Amy said she hears the same complaints from the men she services, including their wife has no sex appeal and having children has ruined intimacy
Amy said men are pushed to cheat if there is a lack of communication or excitement in the bedroom
‘The worst offences in a relationship that pushes a partner to cheat are lack of communication, excitement and fun in the bedroom.
‘Having no sex at all is a deal breaker.
‘Partners that don’t communicate their sexual fantasies often feel secluded when they should be included if possible.
‘You should always make time for each other no matter how busy your life is and don’t be afraid to get crazy in the bedroom or even invite a third member to help spice things up.’
Amy said it’s important for couples to make time for each other and not to be afraid to invite a third member to help spice things up
Amy said she felt ‘terrible’ after her husband cheated on her with a younger woman, but didn’t blame herself
Despite her line of work, Amy has been cheated on herself in the past.
She said: ‘My husband cheated on me with a much younger woman. A few of my friends spotted him out on multiple occasions.
‘For a while I felt terrible but I realised I didn’t need him. I didn’t blame myself – but I should have gotten out sooner.
‘I started OnlyFans to spice up our sex lives. It turned him on but he became jealous very quickly.
‘If a boyfriend or husband were to cheat on me again, I couldn’t care less.
Amy said she started OnlyFans to spice up her relationship, but her husband soon became jealous
Amy said she wouldn’t care if a future partner cheated because she is ‘confident, sexy and adventurous’
Amy said she exercises, eats low carb diet and has cosmetic surgery to give herself a confident boost while improving flaws
Amy said being able to step outside of your comfort zone, communication and self-confidence will result in a happy marriage
‘I’m confident, sexy and adventurous. I’m a man’s kind of woman – I like beer and hot wings, and I’m not afraid to get dirty.
‘I work out hard and stay on top of my upkeep – eating a low carb diet, working out with weights, jogging and yoga, and of course cosmetic surgery here and there to improve flaws and give a confidence boost.
‘I’m so confident after my first marriage – nothing can bring me down.
‘Self-confidence, being able to step outside of your comfort zone sexually, and communication will result in a happy, healthy marriage – and maybe a bit of porn as well.’